Another week && another disaster in the life of Andreaa.. First of all me && Jay were going out on halloween so it was bound to be a late one so the night before i wanted an early nite && so did jay.. Me mum was going out to our Charlie’s the night before && she always gets pissed when she goes there so I told her to keep it down when she come in cos me && Jay wanted a couple of early nights before halloween.. I don’t know if ya saw it on the news but some bloke got shot driving his car through kirkby && crashed his car into some kids.. Wasn’t his fault like but the kids got hit && were screaming all over the gaff.. That happened just over the road from our Vicki’s house && her kids saw wot happened && were dead upset.. So to get them out the way they come && stayed at ours to try && take their minds off wot happened.. So that’s Jay showing off && creating havoc with the kids like he always does.. One early night cancelled!!
Me && Jay don’t see much of each other all week even though he lives in ours these days.. He works away in London during the week && I work most weekends so we really only get Saturday night cos he gets back late on friday && he has to leave early on sunday night to get back down to big smokey.. So once a month we have what we call our ‘date night’.. I wanted to watch the new disney film Maleficent cos am a big kid && love princesses && disney stuff.. So last saturday we decided to have a date night && go the cinema && see it.. I was working on an early saturday so it all fitted in except when i get home jay has invited me mum && me two nieces jade && summer.. Yea some fucking romantic date night that is taking me mum && two kids.. Don’t get me wrong its great that he thinks of me mum && the loves spoilin’ our Vicki’s kids but not on the one night a month we are meant to put aside for us!!
Fourteen years ago me && me mate Lorah met this guy online && started chattin with him on msn.. He was dead funny && normally if me && lorah used to pick on anyone they would run && tell their mummy but this dude used to give back as good as he got.. In fact he was probably better at skitting than we were.. We didn’t know how old he was but I guessed he was older than us because he knew stuff that we didn’t have a clue about.. We then found out that he had a blog that was something to do with a Queen or somethin.. In them days msn was shit && half the time it didn’t work so me && lorah used to go on this blog to chat in the comments bit cos there was nothin else in them days if msn wasn’t workin’ except for Bebo.. The guy never complained even when we started picking on people on his blog, he just used to laugh.. Sometimes if we went too far he would tell us to pack it in && for some reason we did wot he said mostly cos in a funny way we kind of respected him..
We’ve got a new team-leader in work to try && take some of the stress off me.. Fuck me shes causing more stress just being there.. The Regional Manager said shes quite a strong personality && he thought that she might cause a few waves with the staff but he also thought it would be a good thing && she would lick everyone into shape.. She is worse than any of the staff.. If i had my way she would of been sacked the other day because she just walked out mid-shift, disappeared for three hours then told me one story && our regional manager a totally different story as to where she was.. To make matters worse she was also brought in to take some of the strain off me dealing with deliveries.. She has had one delivery && now refuses to work shifts if there is a delivery due — she is an absolute nightmare..
So the last couple of weeks yas have all been feeling sorry for Jay, the poor little lad got abused when he was a kid.. Well now ya can stop cos the little shit is in the dog house.. I have had food poisoning && throwing up every 10 mins && had really bad stomach cramps.. I think it was from some chicken i bought from aldi cos when i went back a few days later someone was taking back some sweetcorn that they had found maggots in.. Think they were trying to kill me off && i ended up feeling like death.. I ate the chicken for me lunch at work with a salad thing trying to be healthy.. if that’s what healthy eating does for ya i think i will stick to me normal scran..
Last week I told yas all about Jay && what happened between him, his dad && his dad’s boyfriend; brian.. In case ya missed it he basically used to live with his dad && brian when brian started touchin’ him inappropriately && then when he told his dad, his dad took his boyfriends side && wouldn’t believe what Jay was saying.. Jay said he didn’t want to stay with them anymore && wanted to go && live with his mum but because she was an alchoholic that was not an option.. There was nowhere else for him to go && so in the end his dad put him into care tellin’ social services that he was makin’ stories up about bein’ abused by brian.. Jay was only about 13 or 14 at the time && like any teenager quickly went off the rails.. I don’t blame him to be honest, he went from havin’ a happy home with his mum && dad to his mum becomin’ an alcoholic, his mum && dad splitin’ up && then his dad’s partner abusin’ him all in a short time..
Jay’s dad is gay && lives with his boyfriend, brian, who he married a few months ago.. Nothin much wrong with that but Jay never seems at ease with his dad’s husband.. If he is talking to his dad && his partner comes over then Jay wanders off.. If he does stay then there is an awkward atmosphere which is so easy to see but Jay has always denied it when I have asked him about it.. I have askd Jay about it a few times && he has always said that there is nothing wrong && that he doesn’t mind his dad being gay even though he used to get teased about it when he was at school.. Although they only married a few months ago they have been together since Jay’s mum && dad split up years ago when he was still at school.. They have lived together as partners since that time at Jay’s nan’s where he used to live..